| | Joe wrote:
Instead of looking for 'perfection', you could rephrase it to seek out the 'optimal' life. The two might be thought of as synonyms, but the second one focuses you on the fact that you have to make trade-offs and choose between different goals. 'Perfectionism' leaves the impression that you have to try to master every action that you make individually, even if that doesn't provide an optimal life.
I second that thought. I seek to optimize the unavoidable trade-offs I encounter all the time. Some of the values choices I have made have sometimes "disappointed" parents, teachers and peers. These "disappointments" arose because of their false expectations that I would accept their values without question. They also arose because the "rewards" system in place did nothing to encourage me to pursue those particular values they held so highly.
For instance, in seventh grade, our grading system relied strictly on "satisfactory" (S) or "unsatisfactory" (U). Unless I had a particular passion for a subject, I had no incentive whatsoever to do more than the bare minimum to achieve an S. My "Social Studies" teacher dogged me every quarter in front of the class about this, saying that he "felt disappointed" that I only scored the bare minimum required points in projects when he knew I participated in the "gifted students" program there.
Now let us discuss values here. Whether I slammed myself against the wall in pursuit of mastery of "Social Studies," i.e. the study of various primitive tribes around the world, or whether I scrambled at the last minute to scrape together enough project points to pass for the quarter, the end result on the report card remained the same: S. Meanwhile, some of my favorite television shows, like Space Giants, offered me much more enjoyment of life than "Social Studies" ever could. What possible incentive could I have to score more "Social Studies" points when the exciting adventures of Goldar, Silvar, Gam and Mikko awaited me every weekday afternoon?
Give me a break. My life revolves around my values, not those of condescending, paternalistic teachers who offer no greater value for greater effort. Knowledge has objective value, not intrinsic value, and I had no objective need to know about how some backwards tribalists in Africa washed their hands with the urine of cows! At least Space Giants, however fantastic and juvenile, offered a moving vision of the best, most forward-looking and most heroic in man. Destroy Rodak!
(Edited by Luke Setzer on 8/20, 4:22pm)
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