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Sunday, April 24, 2005 - 6:20amSanction this postReply
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A community college near us offers a class in child development, in which you bring your own children to a nursery school setting and learn something about child development at the same time.

The final project in the class is a "Family Mission Statement," similar in concept to a corporate mission statement. It is a constitution for the family that you can use in decision-making, i.e., is this course of action consistent or inconsistent with the mission statement.

This strikes me as the sort of thing Objectivists might want to do in their own lives, so I thought I would share the concept with you.

My wife asked me to help her with the project and I ended up sitting down and writing a mission statement that she liked and adopted. Here it is. I'd be interested in your thoughts:


LASKIN FAMILY MISSION STATEMENT

Each member of our family strives for:

Health Self Esteem Achievement Happiness

As individuals we will each pursue these values by:
Doing what we need to do for our health
Doing our best at our work (business, homemaking, school)
Doing things we enjoy

As parents we will support our children’s pursuit of these values through:
Establishing rules designed to support the family values
Saying “no” to that which undermines the family values
Teaching
Playing with our children
Always letting our children know they are loved
Knowing what’s going on with our children

As spouses we will support our partner’s pursuit of these values through:
Honest communication
Frequent demonstrations of love
Kindness
Mutual assistance

As children we will support these values through:
Making our education a key priority
Physical activity such as dance or sports
Cultural activity such as music or art
Enjoying television or video games only in moderation


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Sunday, April 24, 2005 - 9:02amSanction this postReply
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As children we will support these values through:
Did your children write that part? Did your children agree to that part? : )

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Sunday, April 24, 2005 - 10:31amSanction this postReply
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Well, my children are 3 years old. It's my prerogative to write their part.
(Edited by Jared Laskin
on 4/24, 12:08pm)


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Sunday, April 24, 2005 - 10:57amSanction this postReply
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Enjoying television or video games only in moderation
I wonder if children would spend less time playing video games and watching TV if they were allowed to interact with the real world, get a job, and do something productive for both themselves and others.

Anyways, I like this idea. Thanks for sharing it.
(Edited by Dean Michael Gores
on 4/24, 1:41pm)


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Sunday, April 24, 2005 - 11:10amSanction this postReply
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A friend of mine is taking a parenting course called "Love and Logic" -- I'm dying to find out more about it, and will post the details when I have them.

It's encourage to see such things in the marketplace.


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Sunday, April 24, 2005 - 11:15amSanction this postReply
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Well, it looks like some people have yet to find the cultural value of a quality video game or TV show. If you should ever feel the urge, I'd suggest Hideo Kojima's Metal Gear Solid 3: Snake Eater, the pinnacle of his Metal Gear series for your gaming pleasure. On the TV end, check out Hideaki Anno's revolutionary anime Neon Genesis Evangelion.

Though, these aren't for kids really. Very mature topics and scenes (not necessarily sexual).

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Thursday, April 28, 2005 - 6:55amSanction this postReply
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Jared, I wrote an entire series of articles about mission statements and so forth on the SOLO Florida page.  They have gotten mixed reviews.  Some people love the concepts while others hate them.  The same goes for my flow charts and diagrams.

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