| | Michael, I don't know about you! I know that musicians (let alone trombonist-composers) have to stick together -- but your "what can you expect, he's just a musician!" argument sounds suspiciously like "special pleading." :-) Also, what about Branden? Last time I checked, he was not a musician. What's his excuse? That he's a fuckin' psychologist? (Works for me. :-) Also, bear in mind that Bill drew a fairly clear line between me and his ex-friend, in terms of who readily 'fessed up when asked about the deception, and who didn't. Bill is a forgiving person, but his forgiveness does not extend to unrelenting jerks. If it did, I'd wonder about the value of our friendship!
Now, as for occasional pranks being "a welcome relief to the fuddy-duddies," that, too, is a bit questionable. If you consider that a surprise party is another case of something that partakes of both prank and deception, in terms of manipulation, and that Rand was anything but welcomely relieved when such a party was sprung on her, then it sounds as though you would lump her in with the fuddy-duddies. Do you really want to say that? (At least, she wasn't naked with the dog in the basement with peanut butter on her private parts! :-) (So far as I know...)
I'm really torn, though, about the Branden/Hsieh flap on Noodle Food. (A discussion form which, by the way, seems more to nourish shoulder-chips than neurons.) Diana is certainly entitled to decide with whom she will discuss issues, and with whom she won't, and normally speaking, people's boundaries should be respected. What troubles me is Branden apparently hadn't previously mistreated Diana in any way, yet she decided to abruptly start bashing him and to not talk with him, supposedly based on things he did to Rand 40 years ago and said about Rand 20 years ago. Branden wanted to discuss the matter and get an understanding of how Diana could do such a radical 180, but she stonewalled him and instead threw him out of Noodle Food. At that point, he tried his Helen/Hellen ruse, in an attempt to get her to explain why she was shutting him out. And the rest is hysteria, as they say.
Now, not to excuse Branden for pretending to be someone else, in order to try to manipulate Diana into explaining her stonewalling of him, but in his place, I would have been so outraged and so bewildered that I would have attempted something similar in an attempt to get clarity and closure over a relationship that had previously seemed to be fine. Boundaries, schmoundaries. When participation on a blog is on the honor system, and you're being bashed on that blog by a former associate who is now acting precipitously and harshly toward you and who bans you from speaking in your defense or talking out the disagreement with you, I think that the respect issue is pretty much dead. I mean, it's not like Diana asks everyone to sign an agreement like Binswanger does. She has anonymous people, pseudonymous people, etc., on there all the time, and she doesn't clamp down on any of them, unless they make her too uncomfortable. So, deception is really not an issue with her. Not enough of one to make an issue out of it, anyway.
Well, enough on that. But here's a related issue that could stand another look. Rand, who understandably and reasonably, didn't like people deceiving and manipulating her, built a whole movement based on the philosophy of a man who, along with his chief comrades, engaged in massive deception and manipulation of an entire culture. And not just the bad guys, but also very good people like Dagny, who was their (Galt's and Francisco's) highest value in another person. Now, was this justifiable deceit? Dagny wasn't using force against them. She wasn't violating their privacy. Yet, Francisco lied his ass off to her for years. What is the justification? That it was "for a good cause"? That she would have ruined their plan, if they had let her in on the secret? How can it have been anything other than immoral to treat Dagny this way? And why would or should she trust them afterwards? Yet, what did she do? She unceremoniously dumped Rearden, a perfectly good and rational lover who never lied to or manipulated her, and ran to the arms of Galt, the man who demanded that Francisco, her first perfectly good and rational lover, lie to and manipulate her for the sake of the Strike. Looked at in this way, John Galt seems pretty monstrous to me. More like Toohey than Roark. And Dagny seems more screwed up than Dominique!
But that's my opinion. Bill, Michael, anybody -- what do you think about the massive fraud in Atlas Shrugged, and how the Master Defrauder and Manipulator was rewarded by getting the girl in the end (so to speak :-)?
REB
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