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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 12:54amSanction this postReply
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Objectivists often tend to be abrasive or escalate into personal conflicts over philosophical or emotional or artistic or personal values issues that they feel deeply about. (And this is also true of non-Objectivists, as witness the political polarization in the country between red states/blue states, leftists/conservatives, etc.)

But I was just reading a new thread on Solopassion which was about computers! Software, operating systems like Linux, etc. And here's what I found: (1, 2, 3 are different posters discussing this technical issue):

[I've just excerpted some remarks that show the 'style' of the debate...I've excised the technical topic entirely]

" 1. Not true... Not accurate... These are sweeping generalizations without factual support. [ayn rand like in-your-face debating style]
2. Well that's a nicely distorted view of history... I don't want to address every trifling bit of nonsense in Sanjay's post... How can he not be aware of...
1. [offended now] It was my mistake to reply to your posting.
2. ...context-dropping quibble...
3. [I don't know the referent here] How, exactly, was I acting in an altruistic fashion?
2. [responding to someone else in the discussion] why did you want to make it look like someone said something so idiotic as that? "

Notice the abrupt tone, the rudeness, the lack of benevolence, the aggressive and contemptuous put-downs...the use of inappropriate words like 'idiotic'.

I have had a previous career in computers prior to my current one. You would get instantly fired if you did this in office email or in a meeting. I have never once seen this kind of abrasiveness and rudeness and inappropriate discussion style in the office (and usually not even on the web which is a somewhat ruder place.) It's unprofessional. What this tells me is that many Objectivists have not even the most entry level social discussion and debate skills **even in areas which relate to complex and non-emotional technical issues**. [In part of the above excerpts, one or more parties is merely responding to the offense caused by the previous poster.] Which suggests they are destructive in every area of their lives. I hope people will read the discussion above and learn what not to do. Many people have spent so much time among on websites and among coarse, unpolished, super-aggressive Objectivists that they don't really that this kind of behavior will get you shunned or fired or get the crap beaten out of you in the "real world".

The fact that even Ayn Rand or Peikoff (or Perigo) have been prone to this sort of juvenilia from time to time is a lesson in what has made them far less successful or influential than they could have been.

Phil

PS, One or more of the participants will now write a furious and angry reply to me (if they read this list), instead of -accepting the criticism-. He will complain either that I overstated or that I am being rude or condescending or patronizing or butting in...or some other kind of evasive or defensive maneuver. Which will be one more proof of how impervious people can be. And how angry at criticism...which insures they will not change. ( Another person may write a reply saying how the above exchange is really "not that bad" which shows that an insensitivity to how even the first posting causes tempers to flare and an escalating desire to "put down" the person. Emily Post 101.)


(Edited by Philip Coates
on 2/24, 1:02am)


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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 12:57amSanction this postReply
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Hahahaha

When a great elder like Phil speaks we must -accept the criticism-

(Apparently you've never visted computer and software web forums on the internet. If you think that was a flame war, then you would be shocked at the level of discourse that takes place elsewhere.)

- Jason


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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 5:39amSanction this postReply
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Phil,

If you wanted to make benvolent comments about peoples stuff, for example, your comments on Ed's last article could have been sent by email. I find it humorous that you are always quick to come out with the criticism and always quick to take offense at those criticizing your criticism. Make of that what you will, but reading this post from you has me laughing. I've always heard about those teachers who stand up in front of the class and dress down students whose work doesn't meet their expectations. It must be a real power trip for them, but I doubt it does the student much good. Yet, when the same harsh honest judgment is turned upon them, they bristle with indignation. As I said on the other thread, if that's your thing, enjoy. Just don't expect us all to sit back and say, gosh Phil, thanks!

Ethan


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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 6:17amSanction this postReply
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Phil,

What do you like about this forum?

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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 8:15amSanction this postReply
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Is it just me or are these forums beginning to drive people nuts? I had one of my bouts of insomnia last night and when I read this last one I couldn't stop laughing. (He is refering here to a thread I started on SOLO Passion)

This place is pure insanity lately. I'm swearing and cursing at people on threads -- people who do deserve it -- but still...

Altruism is being agressively advocated and people are being denounced for not supporting it.

People are being called baby killers for defending individual rights.

And now Phil Coates goes on an outragous, hysterical late night civility jihad. Whats going on with this place? :)

- Jason



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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 8:26amSanction this postReply
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We need more good articles to keep most of this wierdness under wraps :-)


Ethan (Abrasive baby killer)


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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 8:38amSanction this postReply
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Ethan (Abrasive baby killer)


Hmm... I was an abrasive baby...


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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 9:19amSanction this postReply
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Aw Summer, yah know I'd never hurt you. You're too nice!

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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 9:38amSanction this postReply
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> If you think that was a flame war, then you would be shocked at the level of discourse that takes place elsewhere. [Jason]

Doesn't matter very much: when people engage in this sort of thing they will not be successful in life, whether they are Objectivists or not. Have you ever watched the Charlie Rose show and noticed how polite successful people are?

You have zero chance of success if you don't have treat people this way: they won't write favorable reviews of you, won't invite you on their programs, won't hire you, won't work with you. I consider this a major issue because it is killing the marketability and palatability of Objectivism.

Sorry if that offends people, but immaturity and personal attack approaches need to be pointed out. And condemned.

What the rest of you should be doing is joining in me in condemning it, instead of turning it around on me for pointing it out.

I will put it in a single sentence for those of you who are still not getting what I am now getting sick of repeating:

TO SELL A PHILOSOPHY OF REASON, THE SELLERS MUST COME ACROSS AS REASONABLE



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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 9:43amSanction this postReply
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Let me help you out Phil:

TO HAVE YOUR CRITICISM ACCEPTED YOU MUST ALSO BE ABLE TO TAKE CRITICISM YOURSELF.


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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 10:07amSanction this postReply
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> Whats going on with this place? [Jason]

Precisely the escalation process I pointed out in my post.

People get angrier and angrier and less precise and more emotional or insulting in their responses. And this has an exacerbating, irritation-provoking feedback loop. And builds up grudges step by step. And that has been happening here, just as it did with previous schisms and splits and denunciations among Objectivists who can't seem to get enough of this kind of stuff.

This computer software debate is admittedly a very minor instance compared to the PAR-PARC-ARI-TOC-DianaHsieh mudslinging. But that's exactly why I chose it!! It captures the problem in rather tame microcosm. It shows how -even a little bit- of dismissiveness or rudeness or contemptuousness escalates. Remember how mildly some of those threads started. That's why people learn to insert softeners or qualifiers like "I'm sure you mean well" or you have "misstated me" rather than "I can't believe any rational person could say that", "you are evading x..." I want to focus on the less major mistakes of communication here because the blatant ones should be obvious (where calling a mistaken person a "fascist" is likely to lead in terms of quality of discourse not to mention personal relationship). Note the important difference between "you have misstated me" and "you have misrepresented me". The second subtly implies intent.

I am spending too much time on this too obvious topic. Ninety percent of ordinary working people would agree with me without much debate. The fact that I am encountering so much "biteback", so much negative feedback or resistance on these lists merely indicates how necessary this is in the Objectivist movement.


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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 10:16amSanction this postReply
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Phil, I get your point, but you seem to be missing my point....

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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 10:26amSanction this postReply
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Notice the abrupt tone, the rudeness, the lack of benevolence, the aggressive and contemptuous put-downs...the use of inappropriate words like 'idiotic'.
Well said. I'm sick of the nastiness. We need to all tone down the rhetoric and be nicer to one another.


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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 1:00pmSanction this postReply
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Speaking of craziness, Jason, did you see the latest "link" on the front page to the lewrockwell crazies?  It now appears that Mark H. believes that:

1 - HIV does not cause AIDS
2 - Bush blew up the twin towers on 9/11 to create a fascist state
3 - Pearl Harbor was caused by Roosevelt and Churchill
4 - The bilderburgers rule the world, and really they are just puppets of the lizard men from Rigel...

Can we not delete some of this nonsense from this site?


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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 1:09pmSanction this postReply
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Ethan:

Taking valid criticism is important -- but so is contesting B.S. that is aimed at oneself, and the latter is predominantly what I see Phil having to do.

On the other hand, one can always take the Howard Roark approach. ("But I don't think of you.")

I don't see much Howard Roark behavior these days. (Even in the mirror.)

Maybe we should all ponder what would happen if we spent even 10% less time posting on RoR and trying to be "right." I'll start the ball rolling...

REB


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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 1:18pmSanction this postReply
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Roger,

Sure. I encourage you to look back at Phil's posts on a lot of threads. He seems to want to be thought of as the wise old objectivist activist, but he comes across as mearly the old wet blanket. When criticized for this, he gets prickly. So people are trying to criticize him for both hos overly critical nature and the tone of his posts. He just doesn't get that. My mother always said, "if you can't stand the heat in the kitchen, then don't cook." He can take the advice given or keep going as he is and wondering why he gets flack about it. As far as taking time off from commenting so much, I actually ignore most of the junk that gets posted on RoR. I've even been taken to task over that recently by one Objectivist luminary. In any case, I'm just calling it liek I see it. Phil can't expect to criticize without being open to it.

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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 1:35pmSanction this postReply
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> Phil can't expect to criticize without being open to it.

I'm open to it. I just don't happen to agree with it.

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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 1:38pmSanction this postReply
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Well, whatever.

I'll go back to ignoring what you say for the most part then. Happy days!

Ethan


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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 3:07pmSanction this postReply
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Ethan,

All you have said in your "criticism" of Phil is "I don't like what you've written" whereas Phil has given examples of what he is talking about and reasons why those examples should not be emulated.

It's not that Phil can't take criticism, the fact is that you have not provided any. All you've done is to emote.

And that, of course, is exactly what Phil is complaining about — and rightly so.

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Friday, February 24, 2006 - 5:08pmSanction this postReply
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Others, such as Diana Hsieh, have misrepresented and distorted what Phil has written, in order to condemn him -- sound like anyone else (rest her soul) that we know of? -- and Phil has rightly complained about this, too.

I hereby nominate Phil Coates for recipient of the 2006 Ayn Rand Memorial Smear Victim's Award. I know it's early in the year, but it's hard to imagine anyone else being treated this poorly. Perhaps I underestimate the Objectivist movement...

The saddest thing about all this is that previous years' recipients, becoming fed up with being the targets of such treatment themselves, have joined the tormentors. Rand, forgive them, for they know not what they do. (Or maybe they do?) 

REB


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