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People who imagine that the total of their partner’s sexual energy and interest becomes focused on them upon commitment are fooling themselves. Those who demand such of their partners are setting themselves up for much heartache. Luke is correct that the motivation is deep insecurity.
Our psychologies are not infinitely malleable. We control our actions but our natural, automatic responses to quality boobs are something else entirely. Any attempt to turn that off amounts to unhealthy repression, an unnecessary war with oneself.
You ladies out there, here is a tip from your uncle Jon: If your man tells you that he doesn’t notice other women, that he only responds to you and your sexuality, that he isn’t even interested in other women—then he is lying to you, telling you what he thinks you want to hear. It’s the tip of the iceberg. Run.
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