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Thursday, September 12, 2013 - 7:58pmSanction this postReply
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I remember hearing that the reason that those sad individuals, walking big city streets, would flash open their raincoats, exposing their junk to passers by was because until they saw the reaction in the eyes of their victims they felt some of a subconscious fear that they didn't even have a penis.

I could never imagine that, and was never fully convinced that was the dynamic explaining flashers - talk about social metaphysics! But now, thinking about Weiner, that self-made joke of a man, I'm not so sure that his refusal to leave the political arena isn't some kind of flashing that he's subjecting the voters to. Does he have a deep-seated anxiety that without the votes, and without the position of power, he won't be fully real in some crucial way? When children and teens sext one another it is understandable - they are exploring and trying out this business of being sexual creatures. But when a grown man sends pictures of his privates, without being asked, then isn't it similar to flashing? Digital flashing? "Here," says Wiener, "Look at my iJunk."

So, Weiner must be the whole package... a man who can't really believe he is real in several dimensions, not until he can get the votes, and get the reactions to his wienie (I had to say it). I'm so glad the voters of New York weren't perverse enough to elect him. There is only so much I can take, and still treat politics as worth discussing.

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Thursday, September 12, 2013 - 11:58pmSanction this postReply
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Steve,

I think most people who enter into such highly sociable jobs seek some sort of social validation from their peers. It likely isn't the only reason they enter into those kinds of professions, but it may be a greater (or lessor) reason.

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Friday, September 13, 2013 - 5:56amSanction this postReply
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Steve - I cut a longer section from my piece on social metaphysics and the psychology of people like Weiner. Your take might be on the mark! It was bizarre watching this guy who everyone sees as a joke exposing himself to voters. Obviously, very few were impressed.

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Friday, September 13, 2013 - 8:20amSanction this postReply
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Kyle,

There is a big difference between these three things:
  • Finding satisfaction and joy in interacting with others, and being appreciated by them, which is a normal healthy thing and healthy people differ in the degree to which they are a 'people person',
  • Using the reactions of others as a double check on your understanding of how you are perceived, which is also normal and a cognitive function,
  • Getting an understanding of reality from others as if one's own consciousness wasn't able to fully perceive reality, but others could. That is unhealthy, and it is the social metaphysician.
The person who gets anxious without feedback from others is in a very different category from someone who simply enjoys the company of others. The theory is that a flasher has a very intense and particular form of this disorder - where they must have confirmation from others that they have a penis. There are many variations of a general nature, and that are far less intense, where a person feels uncomfortable without getting praise from others. Or where a person has very low confidence in their ability to grasp reality, or to make a decision but trusts others (not in areas where that call for an expert or specialist, but in all areas). The big difference is motivation. The social metaphysician is driven by an anxiety born of low self-esteem. The 'people person' is driven by a joy of being with other people.

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Friday, September 13, 2013 - 8:30amSanction this postReply
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Ed,

It really is bizarre. With his unfortunate last name, a person would think he would have learned from an early age to shy away from anything like sexting - especially as a politician. I heard a couple of interviews with him before he was first outed. I really, really didn't like him and it wasn't just because of how far to the left his politics are, but for how shamelessly he lied and abused the language in attempts to do political spin.

When two politicians get interviewed, they become symbols for the different ideologies that are clashing. And when one of them if very effective at defending his point (as Wiener was) but does so with lies and a win-at-all-costs approach and the other is coming from a place of integrity and self-constrained to stay within the bounds of the truth (or at least more so than a Wiener), then they are on an uneven footing when the context doesn't judge them on those things. That always ticks me off.

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Friday, September 13, 2013 - 11:02amSanction this postReply
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Steve – Apart from his sex issues and leftist ideology, Weiner dripped with morally self-righteous anger. Listen to his speeches. And the interviews he gave when he was lying about the sexting marked him out as a real creep. He did very little as a member of Congress except spout off. And apparently he was abusive to his staff.

So when the scandal hit people didn’t say, “Gee, he’s otherwise such a nice, reasonable guy. I hope he can deal with his problem.” Most people thought “Good riddance, you narcissistic creep!”

And when he ran for mayor knowing he keep up sexting a year after he resigned to get his problem under control, he looked like an even bigger fool.

Finally, he had recently become a father. So you can just picture him rocking his baby with one hand while sending of Carlos Danger pixs with the other. Who wouldn’t be disgusted by this guy?!


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Friday, September 13, 2013 - 2:32pmSanction this postReply
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Ed, it sounds like the guy just runs on emotions and reserves him mind for creating cunning schemes to advance his emotional agenda. All of life must be about emotional drama - life as the Weiner soap opera. I can't imagine working for the man, much less working for him AND being abused.

For me, he is the poster boy for bad taste and toleration of the intolerable in politicians. His successful elections were each proof of how lame our culture has become in taking care of itself politically.

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Saturday, September 14, 2013 - 6:37amSanction this postReply
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Steve:

I think you are on to something; another sign that political life is often -- maybe too often -- like a magnet, attracting folks who are trying to get healthy, or at least, are driven by some personal agenda totally unrelated to that well worn parade float, "The Common Good."

We could reduce that bias by selecting candidates for public office from a pool in a manner similar to that we choose juries, as discussed before, but I can't imagine that ever happening, so we live with the bias in our system of electing political leaders: that bias is, we select from a pool of people whose impetus was to seek power over others for some reason.

regards,
Fred

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Saturday, September 14, 2013 - 8:52amSanction this postReply
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Fred,
...so we live with the bias in our system of electing political leaders: that bias is, we select from a pool of people whose impetus was to seek power over others for some reason.
True. And once elected, they move the political system towards a bigger government with more power for them.

And each generation has more graduates who see this as a good thing, and fewer that see it as bad. They take their 'shiny' new-to-them, even more Progressive notions and march into their adulthood, full of certainty, as the new teachers, the new journalists, the new talking heads, the new writers, the new politicians, and the new voters. And the old saw of a people getting the government they deserve is effected and reinforced.

We, being clever types, accustomed to designing systems and fixing problems, attempt to overturn the effects of this leftward generational shift by imagining changes we could make here or there to the system - like constitutional amendments, or a random drawing in place of popular elections. But as the chasm deepens between our grasp of a proper government and the views of the average voter, the less likely we are to direct that real engine of political change: the beliefs and the political intelligence of the voters as a whole. And that is a sad fact.

The good news is that human affairs don't progress in a linear fashion... not for long. I've made a few predictions over the years that turned out to be totally wrong because I didn't recognize the simple fact that at a certain point in the progression towards some extreme, a new idea pops up, takes hold, and begins the movement in a totally new direction. Humans choose. The Determinists are wrong. Ideas can catch on like a wild fire. That is the place to go for hope. (It is where I'd go, if I weren't going sailing :-)

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