| | Mike,
Thanks for the illuminating response.
... it may be because you are completely orthodox in your beliefs, ...
Well, I'm not completely orthodox. For example, I don't agree with the orthodox Objectivist notion of a pre-moral choice to live (See: Kids and the "Pre-moral" Choice to Live).
... and also (more to the point) a nice guy.
Thanks, I'll take that as a compliment.
:-)
Your confirmation bias is assuming that everyone is as pleasant as you are.
Well, I'd agree that I may be more likely to err with a confirmation bias of someone's pleasantness, but you missed my point. I agreed that there is the confirmation bias of seeing the world as you see yourself (projection of skeletons-in-your-closet), but I also said that you'll pick up on the actual -- read: real -- things that you prefer to focus on. So yes, more possibility of confirmation bias, but also ... importantly ... more legitimate confirmation of really-existing traits in others.
I was invited to leave Objectivism Online not for ideological reasons specifically but because my "rambling" posts were evidence of "senility"
That moderator sounds to me like a spineless coward who wanted you to leave out of probably envy or jealousy, and hid behind some kind of an appeal-to-authority medical excuse for getting you out of there. Not having built character, he could not be sincere and straightforward about his motives. One of my favorite quotes, from some French guy (de la Rouchefould, or something like that), is: Weak people cannot be sincere.
After hearing about John's and your experiences there, I'm glad I didn't join Objectivism Online.
Mostly, it has to do with people in general, and the kind of people who are attracted to a system of thought that promises absolute truth.
Certainty and hope are the 2 reasons folks seek religion. They are what it is that religion offers. Objectivism offers them, too, but there's a catch.
certainty You can get too much certainty too fast, denouncing things just like you say (Mozart, friends, family members, etc.). I had less of that, because I had lived for over 30 years -- loving, learning from, and losing people and things -- before I got exposed to Objectivism. I also started with Christianity and had already felt certain, only to leave that behind for something I turned out to value even more. In Rand's words, I had certainty, but I realized that "it only went down so far."
In a way, Objectivism is like a drag-race car. It can be loads of fun if you first realize what kinds of things (good and terrible) which can come from the application of that kind of power.
hope It sounds counter-intuitive, but hope can be worse than certainty -- if it is false or empty hope. If someone didn't feel right for existence, and you thrusted Objectivism on them -- which tells them, in opposition to religion, that "what you see" is all that you are ever going to get -- they could be devastated. It may be better -- and is, if anything, safer -- to have gotten inspired to live from or for something else first, before getting exposed to Objectivism. If not, you may develop John Galt syndrome, making you feel either inadequate for -- or uninspired by -- "normal" life on earth.
I don't believe in luck but, in retrospect, I was "lucky" to be in the place I was in ... when I got exposed to Objectivism.
Ed
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