Philip wrote:
I wonder if many of the 'unschoolers' have ever had a truly great, transforming teacher in a traditional classroom and have viscerally experienced how much difference such a charismatic person can make in a young child's or adolescent's life. There are many movies and stories that tell of this, from "To Sir With Love" to "Stand and Deliver". (And I can attest that it makes all the boredom worthwhile and unimportant.)
I had a teacher who must have thought highly of me when I was a young child. She was my kindergarten, 2nd grade and 4th grade teacher. It was only when I was older that my mom told me that Ms. Garlitz (my teacher) made sure that I was assigned to her class each year. My mom also told me that she thought it was interesting that prior to teaching all these different grades Ms. Garlitz had taught kindergarten for many years. My mom thinks (and I somewhat confirmed through later talks with Ms. Garlitz) that in fact Ms. Garlitz followed me because she saw something special in me.
I remember fondly each of the years I had Ms. Garlitz as a teacher. It was me and 2 or 3 other kids that were regularly separated from the rest of the class. She later said it was because she thought we were the “smartest” and needed much more challenging things to do. She would give us more difficult assignments, which we were allowed to finish at our own pace. We ate them up but I now realize it was because of the competition we created amongst ourselves.
I’ve realized now after careful instrospection that the 2 most important benefits of that scholastic relationship were my introduction to significant academic freedom (not complete, which would have been even better) to choose which subject to pursue (and for how long) and the way I felt I was special because my teacher’s attention/concern. But the freedom should have been more expansive (I was excelling and happy when I got to choose) and the feeling of being special should rightly have come from a parent. Neither of which must have to happen in an academic setting.
As an adult I’ve also seen an incredibly transforming teacher. She was the teacher at my school for the first year. Through her actions she showed that she really enjoyed the children and she was very conscientious in how she would conveigh the extensive knowledge she had to them. She was also a great example of a virtuous person. She would answer almost any questions the children had in a manner that was appropriate to their intellectual context. Whether she was reading them a story, enacting a Greek play with them, or getting messy while doing a science experiment, she was quite a wonderful sight to behold. The amount of intellectual dedication she would put into the time when she would interact with them and the way they would respond to her is really hard to put into words. Geez were they learning and having a blast. If these students of hers could put into words what their actions were showing, I would say they almost loved her like a parent.
They were learning about the Greeks, using manipulatives to learn mathematical concepts, doing fun science experiments, reciting beautiful poetry, and retaining a vast majority of this new knowledge. They were getting a lot out of her as a teacher but what I think was way more important and what I truly think they will mainly recall when they are adults is that they were able to experience someone that was/is incredibly reasonable, caring and extremely passionate about her values. They got the most out of her as a person. A person that, unfortunately, they don’t have around in their everyday life. A person they should have as a parent.
Some time after closing my academy, when I was first started to give serious reconsideration to my classical/”Objectivists” views on education, my former teacher and I talked about our teaching experiences at my school. We talked about how difficult it was to justify to ourselves the ending of a particular subject for that day when the children were thoroughly enthralled by it. Why shouldn’t they be able to read Harry Potter all day long if that was their interest? Why was it important for Jordan (one of the students) to do a math assignment that day (I had him on track to realistically finish Calculus by the time he was 13) when all he wanted to do was read from the encyclopedia about jets/airplanes and then tell me about them (hell I was interested, at 8 years old he already knew more about airplane propulsion than I did). Why did my educational goals for them take precedence over their immediate interests, whatever they might be? Was it because I knew better the supposed importance of being a well-rounded person? Well-rounded person, what does that mean, to what extent, according to whose values?
I say all of this even when I know I am also one of those transforming teachers. The children at my academy continued to learn with me at an extraordinary pace pursuing the academic values I had chosen for them. They were fairly happy most of the time, but nowhere near as happy as when they got to choose what they wanted to learn or do. This could range from lounging and reading to science experiments to doing PE/gymnastics at my gym. The extent that they got to choose the activity the happier they were. Sometime later I realize that it was also something else along with that.
I know when I would give the gymnastics lesson and their teacher would participate they loved it even more. I am thoroughly convinced the reason for this was not just because we were so much fun, which we are. The reason they responded so joyously is because just like at the school, they knew we would always try to be fair, we would not criticize, we did not compare them, we were genuinely happy when they succeeded or just attempted. Ultimately what they received was a double dose of adult rationality, which I guarantee they had been missing all their life.
My point with these examples: with Ms. Garlitz (to a certain extent), with the teacher at my academy, with myself, is that we are the type of people that children should have around them, not because we demonstrated the ability to teach academic subjects well (nor the importance of these subjects) but because to a certain extent then (and especially now) we take children’s values seriously by respecting their choices. Which means we let them pursue the things that make them happy as long as these things don’t truly put them in any danger.
So my child doesn’t read until age 8 (which I doubt), she doesn’t worship Aristotle and the founding fathers like her dad, she hasn’t read Tennyson or Jane Austen like her dad, can’t conjugate the pluperfect tense of I don’t even know what, all of those things are there for her choosing when or if she ever decides. Remember happiness is the result of rationally choosing and virtuously pursing the values you have chosen. Give your child exposure to many different things and they will easily determine what they find worthwhile in life. Isn’t that what you do?
Oh I have so much more to say and I want to address all of Philip’s points but I feel like I might be “busting everyone’s crow” so I will stop for now.
PS Kelly’s article has inspired me to possibly write a monograph on unschooling. Seeing as I’m not a professional writer I might review Peikoff’s tapes on the Principles of Grammar I purchased several years ago or might even have Kelly edit the piece (she use to edit students papers in college). The point is, if writing this monograph becomes a high value I will take the necessary steps to achieve this value. Even knowing this now, I would not have appreciated being pulled away from the 10th basketball game I was playing during lunch recess (when I was 10) to be taught a class in grammar (by Mr. Coates, even if he was a phenomenal teacher, which I will assume he is). My life is my own, even at a young age, and my parents need to respect that if they want to have an enjoyable and life-long rational relationship with me.
PSS You are reading from someone who basically only has a high school education (1 year of college) and not from any great school at that. If anything I have written seems unclear I welcome comments pertaining to that as well as to the subject of my responses. Interesting how someone with very little formal college education would be able to open a classical curriculum based school, no?
PSSS I want to encourage the people on this site to read OPAR and ITOE and all of the psychology pamphlets by Edith Packer along with Ellen Kenner’s tapes: Childhood, As it Should and Ought to BE. All of these works helped me immensely in objectively evaluating my childhood and in helping me realize what my goals should be when I have children. Objectivism is a philosophy for living happily as a result of a constant dedication to explicitly using reason to achieve your values. Most of our parents did not have this explicit philosophy prior to raising us so we will all have a significant amount of “cleaning out” of our psycho-epistemologies before we can be truly efficacious. Generally speaking, the later in life that you came into this philosophy, the more arduous this task will be because of the way our mind automatizes premises and behaviors (I have known a handful of individuals where their progress with cleaning out was nothing short of amazing even though they got into the philosophy a little later in life but I think that is the exception). If a fully rational life is your goal this cleaning out process is a must.
To quote a phrase from Philip where I actually think it is relevant:
“There ain’t no f**king shortcuts”
Aquinas
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