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So, you would say that you actually felt, not just imagined, joy (even if not so intense) in anticipation or remembrance of some occasion?
I'd say yes.
Have you ever seen and not just imagined red in anticipation of eating an apple?
Aheh. If I were to answer that question as accurately as possible, I'd have to go into some detail about some experimentation I did some years ago involving self-hypnosis and an eventual conscious choice to live in the real world... but for the sake of discussion, let's assume I'm not /quite/ as weird as I really am. :)
Now can you identify the difference between pleasure and joy?
I can /identify/ it; I'm just having some trouble /describing/ it. <le sigh>
No, I have not read Spider Robinson.
A pity; he's written up some ideas that are well worth considering (as well as, I'm sure, some other ideas that you would feel aren't). One of his more famous quotes is "Shared pain is lessened; shared joy, increased—thus do we refute entropy."
Have you watched The Flower of My Secret?
I'm completely unfamiliar with that work.
Ed,
Thanks for taking the time to answer. A really funny situation is occurring here -- you're sure I'm confused and you pity me and those who think like me; and I, them and you (the same thing, juxtaposed).
Given that we both seem to at least /try/ to be rational, but have come to different conclusions on certain matters, this is an almost inevitable state of affairs.
Luckily, we are both folks who prefer talking it out. You must've thought I or others here don't however, as you were scared you'd get banned.
It's been my experience in other forums that telling the truth as best as one understands it is no defense from disagreeing with the moderators' philosophy. (One forum even broke its own stated procedures in banning me.)
You said:
... and that the list I'm presenting here suffices to inspire you to be able to think of your own brushes with happiness.
But happiness -- as Aristotle, Rand, and I understand it -- isn't something you merely "brush up" against. It's not fleeting, like an elusive "drug-high" that you have to chase after. Instead, it is robust. It is something you can plan your life around (or "for").
I didn't want to assume that Ted had necessarily experienced happiness/joy in the same way that I had; I used 'brushes with' to try to encompass whatever joy-related experiences he might have had.
You could say, because of my vast experience, that I am an animal expert.
But... are you a furry? <ahem>
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