| | It occured to me today that what I'm asking about is very closely related, for me, to what I talked about in the thread I started before this one. In that thread, I asked essentially whether one should respect other's greatness for its own sake, or whether one should only respect it if one thinks that one can, oneself, expect to gain from it materially. Should we even esteem others unless they can first be expected to benefit us, in other words? Or is it rather the case that we have to see how they can benefit us, before we can properly esteem them. The reason I see a connection between these two threads is that if we should value greatness for its own sake, whether it is our own or that of others, then it would not be right to sacrifice others to ourselves. If, on the other hand, we should only pay attention to what we ourselves need, then we can morally sacrifice others to ourselves--it seems to me--whenever it would be required for our own lives. Whenever I'm around intelligent, competent people, I always admire those qualities in them... However, I've wondered if I've learned to do so only by having benefitted directly in my life from other's greatness. Perhaps one can esteem others for their virtue itself, before one shrewdly calculates how it might benefit oneself.... perhaps, sometimes, the emotional fuel of finding someone who shares our values is enough itself. Thats usually all I'm after in such transactions at least. I still wonder, however, why it is that I look up to others that are virtuous without expecting to benefit myself from their virtues... sometimes the only value I gain from them is "emotional fuel", and I don't even know why it is that I get that from them. They certainly aren't increasing my own knowledge or material gain... at least, not that I'm aware of.
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